I have seen the error message "CHECK_NRPE: Error - Could not complete SSL handshake" several times and each time it has taken a bit of fiddling to sort. However the solution is easy! First, check that the file /etc/xinetd.d/nrpe contains a line "only_from" which lists the IP address you are connecting from, if not add your IP address and then restart xinetd with service xinetd restart
. Other common fixes for this problem are described at Nagios Support - View FAQ.